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Athos
Joined: 14 Apr 2004 Posts: 446 Location: San Francisco
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 4:25 pm Post subject: the long-awaited fourth wave feminism |
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anyone read this article in the current utne?
http://www.utne.com/pub/2005_128/cover_story/115 73-1.html
i'd love to hear some thoughts on the subject. think it's true? think the fourth wave is already here? think it has nothing to do with spirituality?
i see it a few different ways... on one hand, i think the fourth wave will really come when US citizens lose the right to abortion, safer sex ed, etc. it's already been taken away in so many other parts of the world.
and on the other, i see the spiritual connections too. like how in many churches, women are the ones attending every week, running the service programs, and generally being responsible for the group memory. and men being less and less a part of it. how long until women and in the catholic church and other churches where women are not part of the leadership eventually storm the castle so to speak? will that be the fourth wave? |
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soapandwater
Joined: 13 Apr 2004 Posts: 945
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 4:51 pm Post subject: |
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You know I kind of thought the fourth wave might sort of be a merging of cultural politics and social activism, but I can also see how spirituality might come into play-- was it in Bitch or somewhere about a female rabbi living/studying in Israel? I don't think a lot of these issues have been tackled, and I think they need to be-- we have the right to worship what we want and be what we want without being told we can't because of our biology. _________________ When you got a hundred voices singin',
who can hear a lousy whistle blow? |
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xuli
Joined: 18 Apr 2004 Posts: 749 Location: sittin' on the dock of the bay
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 5:52 pm Post subject: |
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Hmmmm. Great topic, Athos! Thanks for posting. I don't subscribe to The Utne Reader, so I didn't see the article and wasn't able to read the whole thing. I'll check to see if the library has it next time I'm there so maybe I can read the whole thing.
I have to admit the first paragraph of the article makes me wary. I worry about any kind of feminism that posits women as "essentially" or "fundamentally" linked to peace, or somehow more peaceful than men ... which is where it kind of sounded like this article was going, based on that first paragraph. As a feminist, I'm wary of any ideology that ascribes certain fundamental, essential characteristics to women (and, by extension, certain fundamental, essential characteristics to men), even if that ideology is coming from another feminist.
I also have to say that the following quote makes me uneasy:
| Quote: | | As women assembled near the pyramids in Egypt and held potluck dinners in Alaska, staged candlelight vigils and other rituals in countries around the world, it confirmed Schaaf's gut instinct that an untapped reserve of energy "lies like oil beneath the common ground the women share." |
I worry about any kind of feminism that tries to over-emphasize women's "common ground" and erase the important distinctions *between* women ... like the fact that those women assembling near the pyramids in Egypt live in a part of the world that is being torn up and invaded constantly by the government that those women holding potluck dinners in Alaska pay taxes to. That some of those women in Alaska probably drive SUVs, contributing to the worldwide energy shortage that is creating wars in places very close to where the Egyptian women are gathering.
In the early 1980's there was an important critique of 2nd-wave feminism from women of color and women from outside the US -- namely, that by ignoring these distinctions between women, and the ways in which women oppress other women, they were creating a movement that was not inclusive and not based on the liberation of all women. Having read only the first paragraph of this article, I fear that it's going down that same path.
Really, though, I need to read the rest of the article before I comment any further, because maybe it's going in an entirely different direction.
Also, why does feminism have to have all these "waves"? This isn't directed at you, Athos, or at the article ... it's just kind of a general gripe I have with the way feminism is presented. I use the "wave" vocabulary myself all the time (like in the paragraphs above), but I find it weird. I mean, Marxists are all just Marxists, even though different Marxists have very different approaches, you know? Pacifists are all just pacifists. Environmentalists are all just environmentalists. I worry sometimes that the "wave" vocabulary in feminism breaks up our connectedness to each other -- even though I can critique the racism and classism of 2nd-wave feminism, for instance, I still owe a huge debt to them for my reproductive freedom, my lack of overt employment discrimmination, etc. I am, in many ways, connected to them, even though I'm trying to build on what they started and improve on it. The vocabulary of "waves" seems to me sometimes to de-emphasize these connections among feminists and de-emphasize the fact that we are all in dialogue and working for the same things, even when we disagree. _________________ I'll be postfeminist in the postpatriarchy. |
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Athos
Joined: 14 Apr 2004 Posts: 446 Location: San Francisco
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 6:23 pm Post subject: |
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i'm so hoping that whatever the 4th wave is, that a major component is, as my roommate would say, less myopia - more understanding about women on an international scope, and how as xuli points out, how absolutely connected our choices here are to the freedoms women enjoy or are denied all over the world.
i don't mind the "waves" - though many times it made me feel lost. like i'm not part of the third wave, and that's what's out there now, so there is no feminism for me. to take the image futher, i like how there's the ocean, which is all we have in common, and periodically things shift to gather momentum for a wave.
i guess i'm bringing all of this up because international women's day is approaching, because of the UN anti-abortion resolutions, and other anti-women rhetoric i've seen latey (esp that coming from the vatican).
many times posters on this board have said that conscious living/DIY is a feminist value. how does that fit in with any fourth wave?
also what interests me is that considering so much *positive* social change has been begun by people of faith, like the civil rights movement, the possibilty of tremendous change by women of faith really excites me. a little OT, but just think what would happen if all of the US women who defined themselves as christian suddenly because politically involved in creating a society with more christian values of forgiveness, care for the hungry, etc. i see so much negativity associated with extremist religions, that it really interests me to imagine the future with the liberal faithful.
wasn't part of the problem with the past elections that democrats ceded to republicans all of the control over god and faith? how will feminism affect that? how will feminism change if church-going women from republican states begin to see feminism as something they can and want to identify with? |
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xuli
Joined: 18 Apr 2004 Posts: 749 Location: sittin' on the dock of the bay
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 6:52 pm Post subject: |
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| Athos wrote: | | i like how there's the ocean, which is all we have in common, and periodically things shift to gather momentum for a wave. |
I like that image -- makes me feel better about not being able to escape the "wave" vocabulary.
| Athos wrote: | what interests me is that considering so much *positive* social change has been begun by people of faith, like the civil rights movement, the possibilty of tremendous change by women of faith really excites me.
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wasn't part of the problem with the past elections that democrats ceded to republicans all of the control over god and faith? how will feminism affect that? how will feminism change if church-going women from republican states begin to see feminism as something they can and want to identify with? |
Your train of thought here is really exciting. (And totally different from what I got out of that one paragraph of the Utne article, so I really hope my library has it so I can take a look!)
I have a long history of struggling with religion, and whether I'm religious or not, but one thing I definitely think is true is that it is very hard to have a movement for social change without some form of moral commitment to an idea of right and wrong. And I struggle often with the fact that I do believe in moral commitments, in right and wrong, but I'm also in an academic program where the idea of moral commitments is often greeted with a lot of skepticism, and where an idea of relativism prevails. I'm very interested right now in finding theoretical perspectives grounded in moral commitment -- grounded in the willingness to say, "I believe this" -- grounded in a commitment to creating a more just social order (rather than just endless questioning about what "justice" means, or "truth", etc.)
I am excited by the idea of a feminism that would seek to go beyond a sort of postmodern "anything goes" attitude (which I think a lot of so-called third wave feminisms have fallen into) and moves into a more rigorous questioning of what are the implicit moral commitments that all of us have, whether we acknowledge them or not, and what do they mean and how are they affecting the world. And I think that sort of thing is in line with what you're talking about here, and I find it very exciting. _________________ I'll be postfeminist in the postpatriarchy. |
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soapandwater
Joined: 13 Apr 2004 Posts: 945
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 7:11 pm Post subject: |
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Speaking of waves, you know, I've had trouble identifying myself as a third-wave feminist, although I'm technically young enough to be part of, say, the fourth wave movement (if it comes about).
I used to think it was just a generational thing, and I certainly like the whole thing that happened in the early 90s with the riot grrrl movement, although that fizzled out and we're once again in a world where men are the only ones seen as real musicmakers.
And I certainly have a problem with "this is how I interpret feminism." That can be severely skewed that a ton of people are saying, "I'm feminist, so I can manipulate people with sex."
Logically, if this third wave sort of flopped, we have to aim higher then. There are certain things that I do consider morals of mine; they're the things that make me cry, if I think too hard on them. What's really amazing is how great the philosophies of, say, Jesus Christ are and how they could be applied to, I don't know, helping out fellow human beings.
I don't believe women are inherently these things. I believe we've been socialized to be nurturing, blah blah, etc. I do believe, though, that every human being has the capacity to heal, in some small way, and it wouldn't be a bad thing for feminists to be the one leading the way.
Because right now, things seem terribly desperate. And depressing. _________________ When you got a hundred voices singin',
who can hear a lousy whistle blow? |
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cosmosgrrl
Joined: 09 Jan 2005 Posts: 139 Location: Rochester, NY
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 8:07 pm Post subject: |
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I confess, I haven't thought deeply about this topic in a very long time but the discussion here has called to me to fire up those gray cells and think on it for a piece. I will be back later to post more after I've read the full article.
I too hope to see a certain spirituality and form of faith strung through the next "wave" of feminism. Athos, are you familiar with the "renegade" Catholic church called Spiritus Christi in Rochester, NY? The entire parish was excommunicated several years ago when the pastor, Fr. Jim Callan, allowed a woman, the Rev. Mary Rammerman, to perform the functions of an ordained priest. The church split from Rome, and Fr. Callan brought in a bishop (I can't remember from where) to ordain Rev. Rammerman. They have a website at http://www.spirituschristi.org/. I have attended services there many times and can tell you that it is like nothing I've ever experienced before. |
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kindarana
Joined: 22 Aug 2004 Posts: 767 Location: down by the bay
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 9:22 pm Post subject: |
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I fear any "spiritual" feminism might quickly be taken over as "Christian" and that's not fair to those of us who see spirit in other forms.
p.s. Xuli - your location says bay area, if Cupertino is close I've read Utne there several times. |
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honeybee
Joined: 15 Apr 2004 Posts: 285 Location: appalachia
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Posted: Tue Mar 01, 2005 9:37 am Post subject: |
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the utne article also says'
"When you get Jewish, Catholic, Buddhist, Hindu, and Sufi women in the same room...another religion emerges, which is feminine spirituality."
i think that with all the strife in the world that is a direct result of religious difference, it's key to find ways to erase boundaries between faiths and find common ground in spiritual practice. if women are going to lead the way, all the better.
the article also mentions that since women are outsiders from the authority positions in institutions, they potentially have more power because they are free from the restraints of having to follow protocol.
and i'm excited to hear the results of the U.N. resolution that would require women to be involved in all peace negotiations. i know i'll probably get flamed for being unfeminist by saying this, but i feel that women have something very powerful to offer in bringing about the peace process- something which centuries of patriarchal, violent society has lacked and desperately needs. _________________ *honeybee.etsy* |
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slowgraffiti220
Joined: 26 Nov 2004 Posts: 53 Location: Lex Vegas, KY
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Posted: Tue Mar 01, 2005 11:32 am Post subject: |
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i haven't read the article (i don't have a subscription), but i will say a few things about women, feminism, spirituality, and activism.
firstly, i think the idea of women across faiths coming together and finding that they share a feminine spirituality is hogwash. that feminine spirituality that they all share is likely a result of the fact that they all shared enough of the same ideals in the first place to be coming together for some women-across-faiths initiative, not because women have some special spirituality in how they practice religion. i think this whole idea about women having any innate feminineness is dangerous and just wrong. i would say that, yes, many women have many characteristics deemed feminine, to the point that these characteristics might be considered inextricable from their personalities/who they are as people, and that these characteristics and values, such as communication, peace, etc...are traditionally devalued in many arenas, particularly that of world politics. i do not however think that these characteristics are somehow innate to women, but rather, that their high frequency in women and high exclusion in men merely speaks to how we socialize children in this modern, "unsexist" age. i think that bringing more women and women's experiences to the table in the political arena would help bring some trad. feminine values into the spotlight, and that overall it would be a good thing...but i primarily think that it would be good not because of some innate differences between men and women (i.e. women bring the yin to the men's yang or something to that effect), but just because of the inclusion of people, who as of now, experience the world and social forces in very different ways and from different perspectives. this is the same reason i want to see more "minorities" of all sorts in the political arena though.
aside from all of that there is the fact that being a woman in different cultures means different things...for example, when american feminists got together with russian feminists after the cold war ended the russians felt that to be feminist meant that they could exercise their right to be trad. womanly finally (after years of state mandated short haircuts, pants, and scarce make-up)...the american feminists couldn't get it because to them, what the russian ladies had had during socialism was what they'd been fighting for the right to do over in the capitalist world. being a woman means multiple things, both on the intercultural level, as above, and the intracultural level...i myself feel in many ways ungendered, and i think that's an important perspective to consider as well...personally, i thought that's where we were going in feminism with all of this get crafty stuff...that is, to a place where all forms of work, thought, and life were valued to and for all people...that by doing something trad. feminine like knitting while doing something trad. masculine, like wearing pants on the subway on the way to work, you were being an activist by saying, i am a human first, my life is not dictated by ideas of a gendered me.
as for the faith and activism...i am afraid of that. i respect peoples' right to have their own faith and to express it, but i'll be damned if "people of faith" are going to come into activist movements and choke me out of it with this idea of, "we need to join together in our commonalities!" as a person of no faith, i don't really have commonalities with these people on that level. i speak from experience with this...for whatever reason, i work within the seriously religious/catholic organization of Amnesty Intl. and i see this all the time. i am a good leader. i have strong beliefs in what i do. but i want to walk the hell out of a conference when someone starts with some interfaith prayer. i take my humanist values from the humanist tradition of logical, rational thought and try to comport myself in an ethical and humane way. a group prayer actually ::really:: alienates me because it's presented as somehow necessary to the process of activism...i've even had people say to me, "i don't think you can have a social justice movement without faith...all of the biggest movements for peace have come from religious ends..." well gee wiz, thanks for basically calling me incapable of fighting for social justice and completely negating the validity of my worldview and values. i pointed out that all of the biggest movements for violence have come from religious ends as well, and was promptly informed, "well, that's not the same." (i actually don't find that to be the case, but i thought it was the easiest way to point out the flaw in her logic.)
anyways, just my 54 cents on this issue.
(edited because i realized that i can't spell for shit) |
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ada
Joined: 09 Jul 2004 Posts: 87 Location: London, UK
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Posted: Tue Mar 01, 2005 11:49 am Post subject: |
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I'm afraid that looking at the 'Gather the Women' website (that the Utne article is talking about) brings me out in a rash... there's phrases like
| Quote: | | Gather the Women rests in the deep well of grace provided by Divine Source, with the commitment to honoring all the diverse expressions of faith in that One Being. |
See, I think this is setting up a religious feminist movement, including only those religions that believe in 'one being' who is 'divine'.
Nothing wrong with that as such - as Athos said, many past social movements came from religious people and communities, and just imagine the changes possible if traditionally conservative religious groups would begin to think in feminist terms.
But I am nervous that, in the past, the version of 'feminism' this brings forward is not a liberal feminism. For example, the bit of the article that honeybee cites - that women being outsiders from the authority positions in institutions is really a good thing because then they don't have to follow protocol - makes me terribly nervous. What does this leave women free to do exactly? Make subtle suggestions to their husbands while serving him dinner?
Perhaps I am being too harsh - and I don't mean to say that this is actually what the 'Gather the Women' movement is about, or will come to. But I find this strongly religion-linked approach unsettling and excluding.
*edited to add*
I am not sure I quite got at what I was trying to say. What I mean is, it's fine by me if religious women want to form a feminist movement, all power to them if it is actually feminist in the sense of building on the work of earlier waves of feminists rather than dismantling it (e.g. abortion rights). But I don't think it could include enough women to ever be a 'fourth wave'. And if it is the fourth wave, then it's pretty obvious what the criticism to it would be - see slowgraffiti220's post for that! - and where we might go with a fifth wave. (And, if I can already now anticipate the hypothetical 'fifth wave', and actually women are already living in that manner, doesn't that seem a better candidate for the next substantial movement in feminist politics?)
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soapandwater
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Posted: Tue Mar 01, 2005 12:04 pm Post subject: |
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I think the key here is not to let some speculation about the rising waves of feminism dictate what we do or not do.
The way I see it, I'm going to pretty much disregard the trends in feminism if I see them at all counter-productive, and I hope other feminists would do the same.
My big thing that I like to do (which irritates a lot of people) is say when something is NOT feminist because I think right now we have a skewed idea of what feminism is.
I think the third wave and second wave could really merge and create something really great. I also think certainly religiouns need serious rethinking because if a woman is being dictated by her faith, how can we possibly expect her to start breaking the mold?
That's a problem.
I see this as an opportunity to redefine how we see the dominant (and not so dominant) religions and say, "Okay, let's just say that maybe the Bible was severely wrong in its translation. Let's say that maybe women are a hell of a lot more important than just being one thing or another."
Think of all the backlash in speculating about whether or not Mary Magdalene was more than what the Bible said (Sorry to use Christianity as an example, but it's the only one I know; just know that it's an example)?
We need to reexplore history and spirituality, and we need to come to better conclusions about the role women have played. Religion doesn't need to be this scary, imprisoning thing, but it is right now.
It's one thing to be a person of no faith because you've logically come to that conclusion. It's another to feel alienated because you're a woman or hold certain beliefs that you feel are your morals that you won't compromise.
This is a very scattered post, but I think that whether or not we slap "fourth wave" over this sort of movement, I do think, somewhere along the lines, this needs to happen. I think certain religions hold women down, which is odd, considering how a good deal of religions I have common knowledge of seem to promote feminist ideals at some point.
I'll try to edit this for clarity later. _________________ When you got a hundred voices singin',
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xuli
Joined: 18 Apr 2004 Posts: 749 Location: sittin' on the dock of the bay
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Posted: Tue Mar 01, 2005 12:20 pm Post subject: |
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Wow, so much to think about! I'm so glad this thread is getting so many responses! I love me some intellectual debate about feminism! Woo hoo!
| honeybee wrote: | the utne article also says'
"When you get Jewish, Catholic, Buddhist, Hindu, and Sufi women in the same room...another religion emerges, which is feminine spirituality." [...]i think that with all the strife in the world that is a direct result of religious difference, it's key to find ways to erase boundaries between faiths and find common ground in spiritual practice. if women are going to lead the way, all the better. |
The sticky issue I have with this is the same sticky issue I have with the quote from the article that essentially equalizes Egyptian women with women from Alaska -- where's the attention to the fact that there are material power differences here, and how does "erasing boundaries" also erase the attention that needs to be paid to a history of oppression. Erasing boundaries is easy to do when you're in the hegemonic position. (Which, Honeybee, I'm pretty sure you don't identify as Christian, and I don't either, but I'm thinking more in terms of the people who started this organization, who from what I gather were from the US, which makes me assume that they were raised in one of the hegemonic forms of monotheism dominating the globe right now, even if they don't subscribe to that now.)
| honeybee wrote: | | i know i'll probably get flamed for being unfeminist by saying this, but i feel that women have something very powerful to offer in bringing about the peace process- something which centuries of patriarchal, violent society has lacked and desperately needs. |
Well, I won't flame you, but I will vehemently disagree with you. (And actually, your position is one that is very in line with radical-cultural feminism -- which was quite prevalent in the 1970s/early 80s-- so I won't even call you unfeminist, I'll just mention that you're subscribing to a brand of feminism I don't agree with.) I think it has nothing to do with women inherently possessing certain qualities, but with women possessing perspectives -- like any underrepresented, oppressed group -- that haven't been historically acknowledged. But Slowgraffiti220 put it much better than I can:
| slowgraffiti220 wrote: | | i think that bringing more women and women's experiences to the table in the political arena would help bring some trad. feminine values into the spotlight, and that overall it would be a good thing...but i primarily think that it would be good not because of some innate differences between men and women (i.e. women bring the yin to the men's yang or something to that effect), but just because of the inclusion of people, who as of now, experience the world and social forces in very different ways and from different perspectives. this is the same reason i want to see more "minorities" of all sorts in the political arena though. |
I think where I want to do some more thinking now is on this question of the role of faith in activism, which is really interesting to me. I really like the points that Kindarana, Ada and Slowgraffiti220 all brought up; at the same time, I do continue to stand by what I said earlier about activism needing to be rooted in some kind of moral commitment. Maybe it's just my particular social location -- in academia, in literary theory no less, where any statement on behalf of something "just" or "true" or "right" brings out endless questionings of the terms and ultimately results in a lot of paralysis (I have very few role models who are both activist and academic) -- but I'm really interested in finding a way to make moral commitments (not necessarily faith-based, but not necessarily excluding faith either) in a way that's not naive or exclusionary. I don't know how possible it really is, but I guess that's where I am now.
And it's interesting -- I really love Athos's interpretation of the Utne article, but not so much the snippets of the article I've read or the bits from the Gather the Women website that Ada posted. Hmmm -- I'm not sure what to do with that. I guess it just speaks to the value of discussion, and getting others' perspectives on interpreting things. I could read the article tomorrow, decide the whole thing is hogwash, and still feel like it was valuable to me simply because what mattered in the end was a particular interpretation of the article. _________________ I'll be postfeminist in the postpatriarchy. |
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quixotic
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crap! i really want to read this now, but am stuck at work and don't have an online subscription! poo!
but i will add that issues of feminism both excite and repel me because you're either for it or against and it's an emotional topic even before you hit the 3rd wave, 4th wave, postfeminism quagmire.
and then if you can survive that, if you're not totally zapped of energy, it's hard to really take in everything due to all the divulgent positions.
and somehow, that makes me sad.
thanks for posting this topic, athos, i'm going to try and hit a bookstore soon and read the whole thing.
i've also enjoyed reading all of the responses here, as well.
i'm not knocking anyone, just voicing a little frustration over the state of feminism. _________________ http://www.craftivism.com: wee, yet mighty! |
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honeybee
Joined: 15 Apr 2004 Posts: 285 Location: appalachia
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Posted: Tue Mar 01, 2005 1:46 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | But I am nervous that, in the past, the version of 'feminism' this brings forward is not a liberal feminism. For example, the bit of the article that honeybee cites - that women being outsiders from the authority positions in institutions is really a good thing because then they don't have to follow protocol - makes me terribly nervous. What does this leave women free to do exactly? Make subtle suggestions to their husbands while serving him dinner? |
i interpreted this differently-the way i see it is that the people outside of the mainstream institutions don't have to hedge their words and follow the antiquated constructs dictated by these institutions; rather, they can speak and act freely, and in doing so, garner more attention with their stronger and more radical ideas. work for change from the outside in, if you will.
and i also get a different impression about the faith of the women in these gatherings. perhaps i'm projecting my own loose medley of paganbuddistagnosticism, but i don't see where christianity is the loudest voice of the group in the article. (then again, i don't think 'god' when i read 'divine source'- it sounds to me like a more inclusive term that isn't limited to one form of religion). i, too, balk at the word religion, but the term spirituality has a much different feel to me and that's the word that stands out in my mind after reading the article in utne.
slight tangent- i was not, as many of you have been, formally schooled in feminism-i didn't take women's studies courses, and my attitude toward most feminist literature is similar to my attitude towards art- i feel more comfortable coming to my own conclusions and adopting styles and beliefs that feel most natural to me, rather than going on what the masters or experts dictate. also, i was not raised by a self-proclaimed feminist, though, when i was young, my mother always made sure i knew i could be anything i wanted and that boys and girls were equal. that, in addition to being lucky enough to not have encountered discrimination based on my sex have lead me to take my rights as a woman for granted. i guess my point is that sometimes i feel devalued by scholarly feminists and a bit out-of-the-loop with all the talk of second wave, third wave, etc, especially when i speak of my values as a woman who is in touch with my innate connection to the cycles of nature and the wonders of carrying, birthing, and nurturing another being. these are primarily feminine qualities and abilities, and to hear dissent over my feelings and beliefs is sometimes frustrating.
/end tangent (for now ;). and i'm getting a lot from this discussion.
and there are more points i wanted to address, but i don't feel like a megapost right now. _________________ *honeybee.etsy* |
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